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Don't Make the Kid Carry the Message
Co-parenting requires keeping adult discomfort off the child's shoulders.
After my divorce, I sometimes let my daughter be the messenger because I didn't want to talk to her mother. That was cowardly. Kids should not have to carry adult tension in their backpack.
Shared from one person's lived experience, not offered as a universal rule.